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Victim Watch- September 30

9/30/2015

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It's horrible to suffer as a result of a crime, and the stigma attached to the word "victim" makes it even harder. 

That is the subject of my October 17 TEDx talk in Colorado Springs- how adding negative connotations to the word "victim" is one of the most common manifestations of victim shaming and rape culture. 

By definition, a victim is someone harmed by a crime. Simple. Neutral. 

I'm going to track how the word "victim" is used in the media and by people in the public eye on a weekly basis. 

September 29, 2015
The National Review
Victim Culture is Killing American Manhood
by David French



"In victim culture, a person cultivates their sense of weakness and fragility, actively retarding the process of growing up....

I’d underestimated the allure of victim status — the ease with which one can achieve power and sympathy all at once."



The shame-infested definition the author puts forward says it all. Being a victim entails weakness and immaturity. 

My definition of victim is literal. I was sexually abused as a child. It harmed me. I am a victim, but I am not weak or immature. 

There is no allure in being a victim. Merely drawing a connection between those two words promotes victim-blaming and skepticism of innocent men and women attempting to seek justice for horrible crimes committed against them. 

September 22, 2015 
Statesman (Austin)
For Academia, Try being an Adult, not a Victim

By Brad Stuzman

"The underlying motivation is to stifle discussion and close the forum off to anyone who’s not in a sanctified class of victimhood."

Sanctified class of victimhood.  Again, creating a definition of victimhood that has nothing to do with the true definition and then insinuating that people seek to be victims because it is a privileged status is harmful to people who have been harmed by crime.

No part of suffering as a result of a crime is a pleasant experience, or one someone would actively seek out. 



You tell me: Based on those definitions of victim would you want to be defined as one? Journalists and people in the public eye need to stop turning the word victim into a slur. 







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